Much less worry about whether you missed a pill or didn’t pull out in time. Posts are moderated for respect, equanimity, grace, and relevance. Last night I gave the guy I'm seeing a blow job. Am I just psyching myself up, or should I just bite the bullet and buy the stupid pill? He didn't cum on my stomach or else I would have noticed that. The problem is, I had sex with someone Saturday night. It didn't look broken. Cum stains show up. So please tell me, should I be fine? Keep in mind that if she is pregnant, it would be so early in the pregnancy that it might not show up on a test. We are holding off until my planned parenthood meeting mid September. Personally I would say go get an emergency IUD so you don't have to worry about that but if that is not an option then yes, get the pill if it is a possibility. Or, maybe you can tell me if I need Plan B. Semen. That's normal. This 52 year old is horrified that there are people who consider withdrawal a legitimate form of birth control. One day late isn't a big deal, but it wouldn't hurt to get some pregnancy tests to be safe. Now go and buy it as soon as possible and keep it in a safe place where you can quickly get to it. It went into my underwear and I guess pubic mound area? If her period is late and breasts are tender, there could be a number of reasons for it, but it’s possible she ovulated a week or two ago and is now pregnant. No cramping, no crying. So I'm assuming we're good there. I should be fine though if it was cum+water right? I guess it could have been soaked up by the lining of my underwear. A lot. I feel bad bothering him with so many questions because I don't want to freak him out. If she missed her period, you’re WAY past the point of Plan B. And in the future, perhaps you and your girlfriend can discuss alternative forms of contraception. If I were you, I wouldn't buy it, because you used a condom! And remember that it does take a little bit of time on it to become 100% effective, so keep on with using condoms too. In some respect, it will validate my OCD and I don't want to be a slave to it. If semen didn't come into contact with your vagina, then you won't be pregnant. I am currently going through a relapse of sorts with it and its interfering with my sex life so please bear with me. It didn't fall off. If anything I think you should split the cost right?because it’s his but and your egg and you both decided to have sex soooo why would the guy make his girlfriend buy it? That way you'll have less to fear while trying to cope with your OCD. I dont know when it started rolling up actually, it could have been when he was in me. I've taken Plan B a few times before, usually in similar situations. Plan B is for the first 0-72 hrs after you have sex without a condom (or it breaks) and want to further reduce the chance of getting pregnant. Exists. Who should buy the plan b in a relationship? I don't know if it's worth worrying about these little doubts and getting plan b in case. I highly doubt I touched the condom because it was alittle deeper in the garbage so that would been sticking my hands in while throwing away the paper towel I was using. That's the plan! It looks like a streak. My anxiety is so embarrassing right now but I feel like after being on some birth control soon (and getting my period!) Stopping your pills during the pack (particularly during the last part of the pack) will most likely trigger your withdrawal bleeding (which is the 'period' that women get while on hormonal birth control- remember that you don't actually menstruate because no ovulation has occurred). If the tip dripped, then the condom had broken. More posts from the TwoXChromosomes community. It’s sometimes called ‘the morning after pill ’ which is a misleading name because you don’t have to wait until the morning after to take it. Cookies help us deliver our Services. Right after I went and peed and wiped. Press J to jump to the feed. Condom was safe. It doesn't appear in any feeds, and anyone with a direct link to it will see a message like this one. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Could this be cum? Many things can throw them off. I was trying to figure out if this was cum or not. This way you don't have to be freaking out or underestimating and then you are unexpectedly pregnant. I don't think a lot rolled up, just towards the base. I'm a 26 year old sexually active girl. Should I buy Plan B? I wouldn't. Sorry, this post was deleted by the person who originally posted it. We used a condom, so normally I wouldn't freak out. Maybe this will help you feel better about future condom adventures. My sister took it once and spent 4 days crying- she cannot take any hormonal pill without having an emotional melt down. It is brownish discharge. Although I think it's very unlikely you could have got pregnant from any of this, if you are extremely worried it may be best to take Plan B for your own peace of mind. I have taken Plan B 3 times- no effects. Rinse the outside carefully and pat dry the outside. I'm not on any birth control but I will be getting some in a couple weeks after my planned parenthood visit (I have a complicated situation). After that I cleaned up in the bathroom by washing my hands and arms a ton (OCD ritual) and yeah. My period wouldn't normally start until this next Sunday, wouldn't I be ovulating about a week before that? But wait and see first. I'm reading online that other people said it probably is vaginal mucus. I have been on birth control for almost 10 years now, and have always been very diligent of taking everyday. Who should buy the plan b in a relationship? Also the stains are more on the inside which makes me think it was just me getting wet. If it'll make you feel better, though, get Plan B for your own sanity. It rolled down and hit my panties and maybe the top part of my genital areas (mound area) I'm not sure. I obviously don't want anything, but I don't want to just throw away $50 if I don't have to. What color would the stains be? Preejaculate. Ir he came on me I guess I would see more on the outside? The tip of the condom was filled to the brim with cum, like filled. Not that it's a good idea to miss pills in your pack, but it's less dangerous towards the end of your pack, and it's also less dangerous if you use back-up protection. If she’s already ovulated, then it really doesn’t stop the chance of the egg being fertilized. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. At one point he said the white stuff was inside but I'm pretty sure it was outside (I think he meant inside on the shaft and I may have seen it too). We are a welcoming subreddit and support the rights of all genders. I also bleed it stopped right after but that’s because I should be getting my period next week but idk should I still get it? Plus the effects of the pill will still be in your system even if you missed 2 days, so you won't have ovulated, and the other functions of the pill will be in place. Am I just being completely and utterly paranoid? Periods run late all the time. You were washing up. Welcome to TwoXChromosomes, a subreddit for both serious and silly content, and intended for women's perspectives. My boyfriend was only in me for 20 sec and he didn’t çum in me should I still buy plan b? Besides, cum leaves stains. Either way Plan B isn't going to help- if she's exhibiting actual pregnancy symptoms then it's already well past the window that Plan B is going to work (which is max 72 hours, iirc, but you really want to take it ASAP), but honestly that could just be regular pms symptoms; being a day or two late is no big deal - if it gets to more than 5 days then she may want to take a test or talk to her doctor. Welcome to TwoXChromosomes, a subreddit for both serious and silly content, and intended for women's perspectives. I used to have a test when I relied on condoms alone. By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies.