If they are breaking up (which to be clear, I absolutely think is coming eventually), I can't imagine it would be amicable. By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. You’re willing to build a life with this man who is openly racist and bigoted? I wanted to recap some of Becca’s defense of Garrett so we could talk about it as a sub: 43:00 B: I don’t know if it ever will end...but I have to try to have faith and fight for what I believe in… in terms of Garrett. They likely both think the other has unacceptable views. I don't get why people are rooting for a breakup. r/thebachelor is a subreddit dedicated to thoughtful discussion about The Bachelor franchise, the lives of contestants, and how Bachelor Nation interacts with and influences the world around us. Wow Becca, you can just tell. Maybe because they’re cutting it so close to the two year mark, Becca agreed to split the proceeds from selling the ring? I do…... We’re struggling too right now. Their lifestyles don’t mesh anymore. In my mind... that is taking away from the bigger issue at hand which is what we’re talking about... the underlying racism in this country, which takes away from this white privilege that we grown up to know..and now recognize…and it’s taking away from the real reason why we’re hopefully in this fight. This franchise has failed to support Rachel time & time again. So, before I even like, give my whole thought on it what is it that Garrett..and I think that people listening wanna know this. The fans first met Becca on The Bachelor season 22, which was led by 36-year-old Arie Luyendyk Jr. Looks to me like he got tired of acting like he thought her points were valid and like he was seriously considering them. Even when Rachel was crying and you could just tell she STILL wasn’t getting it. I’m trying to wrap my head around...where do we go from here...I don’t wanna be be like woe is me but I know him more than most people, than you do...I’ve lived with him the past two years. we all knew he was a front-runner because of it. This whole thing makes me more frustrated every time I listen to it or read about it. According to google, today marks 2 years since Becca’s finale aired. She's half pretending that blue lives matter isn't what Garrett meant, half implying she accepts his different views because she knows him "to his core." Garrett isn’t that guy. I love him and want to continue to work through this with him, but at this time this is how I feel” and then go into confident detail about how and why she disagrees. Becca Kufrin and Garrett Yrigoyen have ended their engagement after two years together. ", Becca went on, "We went on this crazy TV show over two years ago in hopes of finding love, and we were lucky enough that we did. Well, Garrett's posts escalated since then, they haven't been seen together in a while and Becca has been seen without her ring on numerous occasions, so our opinions changed based on these events I guess. ", She continued, "For anyone out there who has gone through a breakup, you know that it’s never easy. Press J to jump to the feed. In her statement, Becca tearfully began, "I don’t think it’s going to come as a shock to anyone, but Garrett and I have decided to end our engagement. I really dislike Garrett, but I do really feel bad or Becca. She addressed "speculation and curiosity" regarding her breakup, but emphasized she wanted to be the one to confirm the news herself. I felt so bad for him when she broke up with him at the FRC and felt like he slept around to cope with the heartbreak. Thank you for this transcript ! I FOR SURE think they’ve broken up. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts, https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_5b0ff682e4b0870ebd090153?qhw=&test_ad=taboola_iframe_mw_life. Becca Kufrin and Garrett Yrigoyen of the Bachelorette franchise have broken up after more than two years of being engaged. Close. And I’m trying to get him to see the bigger picture...but you’re taking away from this movement that Black people have worked so hard for and that White people are stepping up more...and it’s think of “oh I wanna support ev everyone” is..I’m not saying the support for people is wrong, but like where you place it at times is not-not correct. OBSESSED with that bridge ✨. I am too much of a wimp to research further. She can’t be both with this. BHH now posted selfies taken by Rachel and Becca. Still fucking sucks. And I personally are trying to have conversations...my family is trying to have conversations with him about this...and talk and align see point of views. He has his opinion and I have mine, and our beliefs on this issue just do not align.” And left it at that. I just want them to break up and social distance. Just saying. They mentioned Garrett and Becca briefly, and said “really sad what happened to them.” It seemed as if they both knew G&B were done. Sooo curious but couldn't find it! It’s important now more than ever to lean on each other and just to give out kindness and grace to others out there, because we could all use it with everything going on.". More posts from the thebachelor community. We really, truly did. He is a narcissist who has been coddled his entire life and told “the world is his for the taking”. After all, Arie proposed to Becca … fiancé causing her all this stress every time he opens his mouth. And i’m not saying that…DEEP SIGH...and-and Rachel please jump in I wanna hear your point of view and your take on this. I think that would be enough for him to be branded a racist and homophobe. I don’t know if people are listening y’know but hopefully you’ve seen the news, you’ve seen the Black Lives Matter and the protests and this movement that’s been taking place but Garrett, my fiance..not the Garrett on HB’s season had put out a post that was the black square with the blue line through it, and basically it was saying “cops lives matter too”. “Not to be cheesy, but I just want to give you a hug right now.”, That is how she was affected by Rachel’s crying. I really do hope she find someone who is 100% compatible with her, she’s very sweet and doesn’t deserve what is happening. r/thebachelor is a subreddit dedicated to thoughtful discussion about The Bachelor franchise, the lives of contestants, and how Bachelor Nation interacts with and influences the world around us. ‍♀️. We have all these Easter eggs from them being broken up, but no unverified tea! The annoying thing is he probably feels just FINE “realizing “ that his fiancé was “A SnoWflAkE LiBtaRd”, and she is likely the one who is mourning the loss because she is a feeling and emotionally intelligent person, which is why she has progressive and accepting views of the world in the first place. (Maybe I’m missing something)....but she definitely would have told people- family members, the friends she is ABSOLUTELY not quarantining with and out hot-tub-drinking with...how have none of them spilled the info? I cringed so hard through her talking. I am sure he will do a fish off or shoot-a-thon or some other such nonsense to raise money to “refund the police”. 1.1k. You should! Now he can go be full on trash and make no effort to learn or grow or challenge himself at all. Broken up or not, Becca knows we’re speculating and she’s baiting us. She is full aware with the obsessive nature of influencer fandom and especially as related to bachelor relationships. Everyone keeps saying this stuff is a reach and that it means nothing: “I read books like that and I love my boyfriend!” “I never wear my ring anymore” “my fiancé and I always spend a month apart during the summer”. And I wanna support black lives and I wanna support cops. I mean, theres so much going on and I was looking forward to my conversation with Becca and now we have to talk about this. That snowman looks like me trying to get through 2020. Becca views herself as both. like Rachel said, they didn’t think about it because it doesn’t impact either of them directly. i feel like people were so willing to accept the illusion that he did make changes, grow, and learn. I think Garrett's views suck but Becca knew that part about him. Again, life happens and people sometimes drift apart and have differences and they go their separate ways.". They have had to deal with to a greater extent than we’ll ever know and I think…DEEP SIGH and I think his heart is in the right place. She FAILED at being both. Bachelorette’s Becca Kufrin and Garrett Yriygoyen have broken up after his controversial Black Lives Matter comments. Thank you! Becca is supposed to be Rachel’s friend and more importantly right now, Rachel’s ally. If they want the speculative comments to stop—which I’m sure at least Becca does—they’re going to have to announce. . Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Especially since it’s her (Ex?) While toxic relationships are heartbreaking, I feel bad that Becca finally met a guy who treated her right relationship wise but to not agree on core values. Or both! When Rachel cried, I could feel her anguish, frustration, disappointment.